Ojiugo's Diary

Category: Sex and Marriage

  • Lie! Your Life Depends on It

    Dear Ojiugo, One of the rookie mistakes I made while dating my ex-husband was telling him my body count. I’m writing this so young ladies will learn.  Way before we got married, I had a hoe phase at university. Bear in mind that I hadn’t met my ex at this point. For him, I was…

  • Episode 7: Married Men Deserve Side Chicks

    Dear Diary, What they say about Lagos[1] is true Before I had this encounter I am about to share with you, I genuinely thought that this happened only in movies. No one I know in real life has ever met people (and consistently too) like this. I read about it in books and the stories…

  • Episode 1: How My Marriage Ended

    Dear Diary, “I don’t feel sexually attracted to you anymore”. “It feels like you’re just my roommate”. These were the words that Dozie, my husband of five years used to explain why he would no longer touch me. In the last six months, we had almost no sex, and I kept prodding to know why.…